Tuesday, October 6, 2009

wedding ring theory

i finally know the reason...

Sunday, October 4, 2009

changes

after using the same template for the past 2 years, i decide to give my blog a change. it is bored for him to keep himself on the same clothes for so long.

changes is need when we are not suitable at certain position, condition, or some part of life.

after searching, i decide to use something natural - woody. i like natural things.
i will keep my eyes open and share what my eyes see...

Friday, October 2, 2009

my dream wedding

a nice wedding video to share. it was nicely taken and produced. i like his work and the producer won two awards by this video. congratulation to him.

now i share this video here

Thursday, October 1, 2009

black and white

black and white

love

few months back, a fren of mine introduce a book to me, written by Gray John, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. but due to my studies, i didn't really have an urge to read this book. and, when i grab this book to read yesterday, i realize i am so a typical Mars that most of the Venusian will not like.

i recall my friend told Vincent is a very self centered man. what ever things he told, all the people must follow. maybe i was brought out in this kind of family. most of my relatives were behaving in this way.

sometimes, i don't really realize my bad habit, and even think that i am the kind of guy who is very caring and respect to a girl.

i admit, i do love a girl in the last few months. and, was trying to change myself when i know my bad habit. but, i didn't put my effort in. i should read that book before i really put my responsible in that relationship, to impress her. but, it is too late... she has now walking far from me, and i also had actually push her away from me.

from the boo, it mentioned that, women are group of people who requires care and communication. this is very true. i realise when i put myself accompany a girl to talk,this will make her more comfortable, impress her more. when she wants to have peace, she will feel more comfortable when i just sit beside her and accompany her going through all her problems.

martian like me, is a very rushing person. i like to see my result. that is why every time, when i work out something, immediately i will ask around to see how they evaluate me. when i suddenly feel that, "eh! something is wrong!" i will try to fix it immediately. but when things go really wrong, there goes vincent... the more i manage it, the more miserable is the problem.. and towards the end, i lost everything.

martians like to solve problem by themselves. and this is actually very true. for me, i seldom seek for advice, and things really get worse when i try to handle by myself. really sad with my own attitude.

in year 2009, vincent is deeply in love with a venusian. and i do love and learn from her a lot. after all, it is my first time after my last one 6 years ago. i do enjoy this one, it makes feel been in the wonderland. though i have lost her heart, i still occupied by her.. and this time i am totally lost her, completely.

for guys and girls out there, faster grab this book nourish and motivated yourself. dun let things change before it is too late. relationship is a precious thing, a good partner isn't easy to be found.
and never force a girl to do things she doesn't like. the more you force, the further they will walk from you.

1st of october 2009, vincent has lost her... gonna start a new day..

and to her, i confess to you.. dun scold me, don't get angry with me, i know i have irritated you so much.. and take care... Venusian, sincerely wishing another nice martians will crush to you soon..

i believe if god arrange both of us together, eventually we will still be together.

fall for you

someone intro this song to me, and i am deeply loving this song.



miss

The best thing about tonight's that we're not fighting
Could it be that we have been this way before
I know you don't think that I am trying
I know you're wearing thin down to the core

But hold your breathe
Because tonight will be the night
That I will fall for you
Over again
Don't make me change my mind
Or I won't live to see another day
I swear it's true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find
You're impossible to find

This is not what I intended
I always swore to you I'd never fall apart
You always thought that I was stronger
I may have failed but I have loved you from the start

Oh, But hold your breathe
Because tonight will be the night
That I will fall for you
Over again
Don't make me change my mind
Or I won't live to see another day
I swear it's true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find
It's impossible
So breathe in so deep
Breathe me in
I'm yours to keep
And hold on to your words
Cause talk is cheap
And remember me tonight
When you're asleep

Because tonight will be the night
That I will fall for you
Over again
Don't make me change my mind
Or I won't live to see another day
I swear it's true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find

Tonight will be the night
That I will fall for you
Over again
Don't make me change my mind
Or I won't live to see another day
I swear it's true
Because a girl like you is impossible to find
You're impossible to find